Paradox

Ugh how how do you get rid of a post? I accidentally started this one. Guess I gotta finish it. I marvel at the variety of people and perspectives. I have friends from many walks of life. But I still find myself judging or envying the variety of ways that people choose to live. It's as if I wish there were some right way. I guess I've been trying to do it the right way. But the "right" way must be the way that gives you the greatest peace and satisfaction with the life that you are living. I think I know three people who have that. They have joys and sadnesses. Each of them lives a very unique lifestyle but each of them is also totally accepting of everyone else's way. No judgment, no envy. I feel I am growing more accepting of myself as I am and I hope that age and wisdom will allow me to share that acceptance with everyone in my sphere. But doesn't that mean I have to change? And at the very least its a paradox or oxynoronic. ha ha